Elmo and Love
Last night I finally got around to watching Being Elmo: A Puppeteer's Journey. It came highly recommended by many of my friends, and I wasn't disappointed. I'll admit that I've loved Elmo since I was a kid--at one point in middle school, I may have perfected Elmo's voice ... yeah, it absolutely got me all the girls.
Anyway, the documentary was a fascinating look at the life of Kevin Clash, the guy who made Elmo who he is today, from his humble beginnings in Baltimore to fulfilling his dreams of meeting and working with Jim Henson, bringing a voice and character to a fluffy red puppet who's familiar to us all, and now to his role as an executive producer on Sesame Street.
One of the things that struck me while watching it was the story of how Kevin developed Elmo's character. The first incarnation of Elmo was as a growly, gruff-voiced caveman-like creature who liked to cause mayhem, but it just wasn't working, and so fellow puppeteer Richard Hunt tossed Elmo into Kevin's lap and said, "He's all yours." Every puppet, he'd been told, has to have one thing that makes them, one characteristic that defines them.
Somehow, someway, Kevin discovered Elmo's: love.
Elmo is love personified. He loves everyone. He's all about affection: hugging, kissing, holding hands. He's all about making people feel loved, welcomed, included, appreciated. And that, I'd suggest, is why he's so popular. It's why kids love him; it's why, as Kevin relates, kids in Make-A-Wish-type situations ask for him; it's why he brings comfort to those in distress; it's why he brings joy to those experiencing sorrow.
Love.
Yes, I'm drawing a lesson from a furry red puppet and applying it to faith.
Because God is love. Jesus is love personified. And we're supposed to be the same way--that's what a follower does, right?
So what does it say about how we're living our lives, about how we're presenting Christ, about how we're representing God to a hurting, broken world, that we aren't received the same way, that we aren't in those same places, that we aren't bringing the comfort and welcome and joy of a loving God to those around us?
Faith and technology: who is in control?
Adapted from yesterday's message, "Who is in control?"

Technology allows me to distract myself by Facetiming with myself and taking a picture of it.
The world today is very different from the one that we were in even ten years ago. Teenagers nowadays share their passwords as a show of affection ... yes, really. We're a generation that has seen immense (particularly technological) change--and have adapted to it pretty seamlessly. We're good at that. We own cell phones, computers; we're on social media; we've joined the digital revolution without really giving it a second thought.
Because when something is as ubiquitous as media and technology, we usually don’t even think about it. It’s like oxygen; we don’t tend to think about how we breathe, about the biological or physiological processes that are going on; we just do it. And for many of us—I’d be so bold as to say all of us—this is the same with media and technology.
- When we watch TV, we aren’t necessarily tuned in to what’s happening as we watch this show or that movie.
- We’re a culture where we “like” somebody’s link or picture or comment on Facebook if it takes our fancy.
- We post things online about our lives, and sometimes about other people’s lives, without thinking about the ramifications or the consequences.
- When we see, hear, or read an ad or even the news, we often just receive it.
We don’t tend to actively think about how something impacts us or how we interact with it. And we don’t tend to think about how our faith might impact the role these things play in our lives.

At The District Church, we're going through a series called Mustard Seeds. The background is from Matthew 17:20, where Jesus says, "If you have faith the size of a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will be so; and nothing will be impossible for you." We want to talk through what it looks like for us to have faith to move mountains (and it's not a lot!) in our everyday lives.
Yesterday, I talked about the impact of faith on technology, and framed it with the question, "Who is in control?" Technology is all around us, enabling us to do more, to see more, to experience more. The world of media and technology that we inhabit is not in essence good or evil. These things can be used for good or for harm.
- We can send emails that build up or we can send emails that gossip and tear down.
- We can be manipulated by the way a news channel spins its reports, or we can seek the truth and point others to it.
- We can allow advertisers to tell us what we’re missing and how their product will make things all better, or we can laugh at the lie that is being told and remember that what we’re all missing, what we all need at root, is a Savior to rescue us from the disease of sin and selfishness.
Who is in control?
Sherry Turkle has this interesting story to tell, and I think it may resonate with many of us:
I check my e-mail first thing in the morning and before going to bed at night. I have come to learn that informing myself about new professional problems and demands is not a good way to start or end my day, but my practice unhappily continues. I admitted my ongoing irritation with myself to a friend, a woman in her seventies who has meditated on a biblical reading every morning since she was in her teens. She confessed that it is ever more difficult to begin her spiritual exercises before she checks her email; the discipline to defer opening her inbox is now part of her devotional gesture. (Alone Together, 154)
My friend John calls this, “the first battle of the day.” And it’s a battle I fight every morning too. Who is in control? Whose voice do I want to hear first thing in the morning and last thing at night?
It sounds really basic, right? I mean, we're really talking about Facebook and the gospel? Email? Twitter? Texting?
Yup.
Because it's in the basics where the rubber hits the road. It's all well and good to say, "Love the Lord your God with all of your heart, mind, soul, and strength," or "Love your neighbor as yourself," but it's in these basics--in the simple things--where that's really worked out. One of the greatest disconnects that people outside the church see, and that people inside the church feel, is the disconnect between Sunday and the rest of the week—that what we hear and say and read and experience on Sundays doesn’t always slide very easily into the molds of Monday through Saturday. Well, it's not just in the big things; actually, it's faith worked out in the small things that in time forms the character that works itself out in the big things as well.
And so it matters what we do in the small things. So what does it look like to live out the gospel in and through your technology-saturated life?
- Maybe it means taking a step back and turning up your sensitivity to how you engage and interact with technology, even just for a week, at first.
- Maybe it means that when you get annoyed with somebody for not being present (because they're checking their phone constantly), you also ask yourself, “Do I do this to other people?”
- Maybe it means building structures or maybe even rules in your life for the ways and the places you utilize technology so that you can be more intentional—both in interpersonal relationships and in your relationship with God.
- Maybe it means that, like Sherry Turkle's friend, you choose not to check your email until after you’ve spent some time with God.
You can—you need to—figure out for yourself what it looks like for you to love God with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength, and to love your neighbor as yourself.
In the beginning, in the Garden of Eden, Adam and Eve were asked by a serpent, “Who is in control?” They answered, “Us,” and ate the forbidden fruit.
Three thousand years ago, in Babylon, three young men named Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego were asked by a king on pain of death, “Who is in control?” They answered, “God,” and were thrown into the blazing furnace--in case you don't know the end of the story, God came through for them.
And two thousand years ago, a man in Palestine named Jesus hung on a cross and was asked, “Who is in control?” He answered, “God. Forever and always, God. Even when it doesn’t look like it, even when you don’t understand it, God.” And this Jesus gave his life to take the sin of the world on himself, so that we might be liberated from the cycle of brokenness and death, to right relationship with God and with others. And in case you don't know the end of the story, three days later, this man Jesus rose from the dead—that’s how you know God was in control. That’s how you know that God is still in control.
Here in 2012, you and I are asked the same question, “Who is in control?”
What’s your answer? And how are you going to back it up?
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You can check out the full sermon online here.
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UPDATE: Thanks to the Washington Post for picking this up in the local faith section.
The gospel
As good and succinct an answer as I've found to the question, "What is the gospel?":
The gospel is this: We are more sinful and flawed in ourselves than we ever dared believe, yet at the very same time we are more loved and accepted in Jesus Christ than we ever dared hope. This is the only kind of relationship that will really transform us. Love without truth is sentimentality; it supports and affirms us but keeps us in denial about our flaws. Truth without love is harshness; it gives us information but in such a way that we cannot really hear it. God's saving love in Christ, however, is marked by both radical truthfulness about who we are and yet also radical, unconditional commitment to us.
Tim Keller, The Meaning of Marriage, 48.
Keeping healthy
It's been awhile since I've made time for things that give me life, that aren't necessarily 'productive' but are highly conducive to my spiritual, mental and emotional health--things as simple as reading a book, or going to see a movie, or discovering new music. I realized that I needed to build a little more of that into my schedule, and with the extra time afforded me by my sports injuries (from which I'm recovering), I've been able to indulge a little.
Books
Between Two Worlds, John W. Stott. A great and classic resource on preaching; insightful and wise. Stott's been a spiritual mentor of mine and a favorite theologian, and when I read books of his like this one, I feel his passing all the more keenly.
Kissing Outside the Lines, Diane Farr. A funny, touching and insightful look at inter-racial relationships, sparked by an encounter between a Korean-American named Seung and Farr (a well-known actress). I guess it sort of validated a lot of the thoughts and feelings I'd had about inter-racial relationships, including ones that I'd been in.
LeadershipNext, Eddie Gibbs. Examining what leadership--particularly in the church--looks like as we launch into the 21st century. Gibbs is a professor at Fuller Seminary, and has been involved with a number of emerging church movements. In reading this, I was glad to see that we at The District Church are already living out a lot of the things he said would be needed to thrive.
A Game of Thrones, George R.R. Martin. I'm re-reading this fantastic work of fiction in light of the HBO series whose first season just finished, and also the latest installment, "A Dance with Dragons," that just came out. When I first read this, years ago, I couldn't handle it. The bad guys weren't clear; the good guys weren't clear; I didn't know who I was supposed to root for. But reading it again last year, having the benefit of a few years of age, wisdom and maybe a dose of realism, I was able to appreciate that there aren't easy answers, it isn't a black-and-white world, and that not everyone you care about lives to see the happy ending. A fantasy-fiction series for a post-modern world.
Movies
Captain America: The First Avenger.
A riproaring adventure, a fun comic book adaptation, an enjoyable ride. Definitely, definitely, definitely had its cheesy, "ra-ra America" moments (a.k.a. Team America moments), but on the whole, I had fun. Chris Evans did a great job as Cap, Tommy Lee Jones was hilarious--as usual when he's trying to be, e.g. Men in Black--and it set the scene well for next summer's blockbuster adventure, The Avengers, which you get a preview of at the end of the credits--so exciting!!
Cowboys? Cool. Aliens? Cool. Combined? A boy's dream. Lots of shooting and explosions, two generations of leading men (Harrison Ford--sorry, dude--and Daniel Craig), and Olivia Wilde? Entertainment. I'm not going to dissect this, or talk about postcolonialism, or even how it could've been a better movie. It was a good and fun and entertaining enough for me! Thanks to Jon Favreau, who's really showing his directing chops--with this, the Iron Man movies, and Elf, the guy's got some talent.
Definitely one of my favorite movies of the year. In the story of a middle-aged man whose life falls apart around him, Steve Carell, Julianne Moore, Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone light up a fantastic script--at turns heartwarming, gut-wrenching, painful, hilarious, sad, frustrating, and laugh-out-loud funny. Kevin Bacon and Marisa Tomei provide some stellar support, and welcome to the big screen, Analeigh Tipton! I went on the basis of my friends' recommendations, and I'm telling you now: go see it.
Music
Zonoscope, Cut Copy. Fun indie, electronic music. Thanks to JY for the recommendation.
Bon Iver, Bon Iver. All my friends (hipster and otherwise) had been raving about this. And it's warranted. My first taste of Bon Iver's music, and it's a good one.
10,000 Reasons, Matt Redman. The latest offering from a Christian music stalwart, Matt continues to write songs that speak for a new generation. Love the guy's heart.
Strip Me, Natasha Bedingfield. This actually came out last year, but I only got it this summer. Natasha's always got a way of making me smile with her music. So much love for her.



